Pet Memorial
Our Pets, We Love
Losing a beloved pet is a profoundly difficult and delicate time. The grief process can be as complex as losing a human loved one. Pets are often considered family, and the bond shared with them is one of unconditional love. You may feel emptiness, isolation, and loneliness, regardless of how many pets you have. Your emotions, may range from deep sadness or guilt to fond memories of joy and happiness, highlighting the significant impact pets have on our lives.
For children, the loss of a pet can be particularly confusing, especially if it is their first experience with death. Their emotions will vary depending on their age and previous experiences with loss, and their reactions may not always be as expected.
Suki and my granddaughter were best friends. Suki was laid to rest in her special place, between 'Mag' magnolia and the bird feeder, with her favourite toys and blankets.
We were worried about how my granddaughter would cope, so we tried to shield her from the moment. Her aunt took her to the park, but they returned sooner than expected.
My granddaughter was able to stroke Suki and say goodbye. In hindsight, this seemed better for her rather than try to hide Suki's death.
A couple of weeks later, when I asked how she felt about Suki not being here, she said, “I see Suki; she comes to play with me in my sleep.”
Each person copes with loss and grief in their own unique way. Whether it’s through talking, photographs, cherished memories, dreams, keepsakes, or a memorial service, you can explore what helps you navigate this difficult period. I am here to support and guide you through whichever paths you choose.
Creating a Memorial ceremony or ritual for a beloved pet can be a meaningful way to celebrate and honour their life and the connection you shared. Remembering your pet in this way may also aid with the grieving process.
A few ways you could have a memorial are:
Plant a tree.
Memory book or box.
Dedicated poem.
Herb garden.
Commission a painting.
Have a gathering in their favourite place.
How you wish to say goodbye is entirely personal.
With empathy and compassion, I am here to support you through this challenging time and help you give your pet a heartfelt, dignified, and respectful farewell.
Magnolia Memory
Your ‘one-of-a kind’ time to say say goodbye and special moment to remember
Contact you within 24 hours of the initial call.
Face to face meeting, wherever you feel comfortable.
By zoom/video if you are not able to meet in person.
Craft the words to honour your pet.
Courtesy call the evening before to check in on you.
Deliver the service on the day.
Gifted sapling tree planted by National Trust with digital certificate, dedicated to your pet.
Beautifully presented keepsake of your ceremony. Printed on handmade, wildflower seed, pollinator friendly, paper. Plus hand folded, origami, 'bag of pawsitivity' for your moments to remember with origami butterfly clasp.
‘You could have the service at any special location meaningful to your pet and you, making a more personal and memorable moment'.
Prices start from £120.00*
Mileage charge @ 45p per mile over 30 miles of Stafford.
*Please note additional costs may be incurred depending on materials and preparation required, flexibility on prices depending on the type of service and support you require. See additional information page.
Here for you throughout your delicate journey.
Beyond your service, I offer courtesy calls to check in on you.
If you wish, we can keep in regular contact.
Additionally, I support a grief café.*
If you feel comfortable to, please join us.
This is a community group, not a counselling session, led by caring individuals
with experience and listening skills.
We talk and listen to each other, offering support for all kinds of loss and grief.
*N.B. We are currently undergoing relocation for the grief café which I will update as soon as possible. Pleas do not hesitate to contact me.
Signposting you to a few organisations if you feel you need to reach out. If you struggle with the internet or do not have a computer, ask family or friends, or your local library, to help:
The Blue Cross offers a pet bereavement service providing free, confidential support to anyone affected by losing a pet. Go to pet bereavement service, 0800 096 6606
Cats Protection has a confidential phone line called Paws for Listen a service for any cat owner suffering grief or bereavement for a beloved pet. They do not offer counselling but a listening ear. Go to Paws to Listen, 0800 024 94 94
For equine support, The British Horse Society's Friends at the End is designed to make sure that no horse owner faces losing their companion alone. Go to 'Friends at the End', 02476 840500
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